Bikes, Betties and the Beautiful Beachfront

Last week, in celebration of the lovely Casey's birthday, a big group of friends and I went skating/biking along the Durban beachfront promenade, from the Moses Mabhida Stadium to Ushaka and back. It was one of those 'pinch myself is this really winter?' kind of June days, and Durban was breathtakingly beautiful. This day was one of my top 5 days of 2012 so far and I am ever grateful for the city I live in and the people that I get to live with, and fun is definitely a top priority of ours. 

Side note: I am rather stoked about the recent rise in popularity of skateboarding in Durban (especially amongst girls), thanks to the likes of companies like 'Peg.' I got to use a Peg longboard for the first time, and it was a sweet ride!  

Here are some of my iPhone pics of the day.

You can take me out of South Africa, but you can't take South Africa out of me

After 9 months on USA soil, I am finally back under the African skies.
As the plane hit the Durban runway, my heart leapt at the joy of being home and my eyes welled with tears as the airport sliding doors revealed my family and best friend standing on the other side.
Two whole days of travel (from Redding to San Fran to Dubai to Durban) is a brutal companion for a lone traveller, but the destination awaiting me was worth the uncomfortable airplane chairs.


Being back in my homeland is a longing fulfilled. Towards the end of my American adventure, I began to yearn for my country, culture, and people. Living outside of these familiarities is no small challenge. After living away from South Africa for the amount of time I did, I realized that there are things that we all take for granted daily that we are unaware we are taking for granted. Example: Friends with whom you have a long history of relationship; Places soaked with memories that stretch as far back as childhood; Family members that live one bedroom away at least or one car ride away at most.
Before I moved away, these things had become luxuries that valued far less than I should have. I'd never had to live without them nor did I ever imagine having to.
When I boarded that plane that carried me to a land far, far away, I was bored with all things familiar and needed a taste of life outside the nest. Don't get my wrong, I had such a good time, that this coming August I'll be doing it over again, but I guess since having my feet planted in South African soil once again, things are being viewed from new perspectives.


It's odd to be standing as a person who has changed and transformed so much, in a place and amongst people that don't seemed to have changed at all. Things are mostly the way I left them, yet why does it feel that 9 months away has allowed me to feel as though I'm tasting for the first time, things that were once my everyday norm? Everything about my country, home, family and friends seems new and different, yet there are still faint traces of years of familiarity that cling to them.
Every day I've been looking outside my window and wondering if it's gotten more beautiful since I've been gone, or if the lenses of familiarity just clouded me from seeing and appreciating this evident beauty all along. I think it's the latter.


I am simply adoring my 'new' Durban lifestyle as if I've never lived it before. I've gotten to watch the sun rise over the ocean and set over the rippling sugar cane fields once again. I've been able to surf the Indian oceans and see dolphins swim by yet again.
It hurts my heart a little to know that there are South Africans with hearts bent negatively towards this country and desires of running away to seemingly greener pastures. Take it from someone who once thought the same, it doesn't get a whole lot greener than this.


So, if anybody needs me I'll just be soaking up all this South African goodness over the next few months, and strike me down if I ever forget what a good life it is!

I Heart Durban

Durban, (pronounced "Debben" by some) is a homely little city nestled in the Kingdom of the Zulus, who's residents are responsible for soaking up the vast majority of the South African sunlight. Home to endless horizons of sugar-cane fields and the worst drivers that South Africa has to offer, Durban is uniquely it's own.
Okay, so we all know that Johannesburg is where the money is, Cape Town is where the trendy are, but Durban (nickname: Durbs) is where the vibe is.

I am proudly Durbanite, it's in my DNA. I was born at Parklands hospital ('the place to be born' if you are a  90's kid,) and toddled along the beachfront in my nappy whilst my dad surfed the Gunston 500 and my mom worked on her tan. I had many birthday parties at Mitchell Park and used to spin in the gigantic teacups at the July funfair. I was a Waterworld local and always wore a sunburn and a smile. I remember being mesmerised by the lights display at The Workshop every Christmas eve, and can clearly recall when the first Maccas opened up in Town. Speaking of town, I remember shopping in the heart of the city back when it wasn't a war zone and you could engage in some retail therapy and make it home fairly unscathed.
Durban and I go way back, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I am grateful to this city for allowing me to live 'the good life.' Growing up, this city kept me outdoors, on the beach and in the sunshine, preventing me from steering towards the dismal life of a "mall-rat playstation junkie" (no offense Joburgers). I learnt to surf on Durban waves, learnt to drive on Durban roads and have made life-long friends and unforgettable memories on Durban soil. Excuse me while I shed a tear of gratitude for my hometown.


Why the sudden surge of nostalgia and 'patriotism' you may ask? Well, for the past few weeks, my little city has been rolling out the red carpet of good times, and I thought it only fitting that I should give credit where credit is absolutely due. I've been learning to fall in love with my hometown all over again as I have been on a little trip of rediscovering why 'home is where my heart is'.


Seems as though Cape Town's greener and more cosmopolotain pastures have stolen some of our local folk, but that hasn't stopped Durbs from showing us what the good life really looks like, and it has been throwing some hell-of-a-fun weekends at us. So, in keeping with the spirit,  here's a list of my latest Debben loves:


Tucked away at the foot of the Stamford-Hill buildings lies Unit 11. From the dodgey alleyway, this place looks likes just another joe-average spot, but my dear friend, never let appearances allude you, for this is Durban's best kept secret. Two weekends ago, Unit 11 hosted the pop 'n roll kwela disco punk band 'Desmond and the Tutu's' and this sweaty jam-fest put Unit on the map in a big way. Seeing over 300 people with their hands in the air doing the 'Desmond Claw' and dancing like raving maniacs, was quite a sight to behold! Whilst driving home from that gig, I can guarantee you everyone was thinking "Durban, you have outdone yourself yet again," and judging by the influx of Facebook statuses the following day, anyone that had even the slightest bit of indifference towards this city was silenced forever more. Can I get a hip-hip-hooray for Unit 11 and local music?


Next on my list we have I Heart Market.  When it comes to flea-markets, Durban has been starving for one that sells decent, hand-made odds and ends while simultaneously showcasing local creative talent. I am all for markets, but most of the ones we've had in the past have had the odd nice thing lost in a sea of kitsch. Not an ideal situation, and sifting through junk gets tedious after a whole. So, since the launch of I Heart Market in 2009, there has been a smile on every avid thrifter's dile, and now, on the first Saturday of every month, there is an event to look forward to and a perfect excuse to spend money on something other than petrol. I Heart Market boasts an array of gorgeous hand-made thingies that range from jewellery and local clothing to food and stationery, and will provide all those that are creatively minded with a hit of inspiration that we all need at lease once a month. 


On the topic of markets, living on the North Coast as I do, I recently visited The Litchi Orchard Market in Salt Rock which is occasionally converted into a night-market, and just fell in love with the atmosphere and all the delcious farmer's produce sold right on my doorstep. This market takes place under a canopy of Litchi trees and between the cafe and the food stalls you are guaranteed to eat and drink your fill. With such pretty scenery and such tasty smells wafting around, your senses feel like they've been to Brookdale Spa when you leave the place. Definitely worth the drive out North. 


Then, there's Corner Cafe. I'm not talking about a little corner tearoom owned by a fat greek man and his loud-mouth wife, I'm talking about a cafe off Davenport Road in Glenwood that serves interesting and tasty food-blends and is a typically 'Durban' cafe experience. Corner cafe is not trying to be 'the next best thing' but just oozes chill, style and Durban trend. I love the decor, I love the inside and outside seating and I love the fact that whilst you wait for your food to be prepared you can plan your next haircut at the hairdresser on the premisis or browse through second-hand clothing treasures at the Bonnie & Clyde store. If you come on the right day, you may even have the pleasure of listening to a live acoustic set by performed by up-and-coming local talent whilst you munch. 


And last, but absolutely not least is my beloved Florida road which is about as trendy as Durban gets. I've always loved the roadside dining experience that has taken 'overseas' by storm, hence the reason a night on Florida road is always a good one. Lined with deeevine restaurants and the occasional mellow dancefloor, Florida road is converted into a little hub of activity and entertainment as soon as the sun dips behind the hills. Personal favourites of mine are Spiga d'Ouro (a little piece of Italy on our shores), Mo's Noodles (The kind of tasty Asian food that you find yourself daydreaming about) and of course Taco Zulu (Mexican food with a Durban twist). Then there's Sunrise house of curries for the bunny chow lovers out there, Europa, Butcher Boys, Ocean Basket, Bangkok Wok, Capello and Deluxe Burger Bar. So much choice, such nice vibes, Florida Road for the win. 


So, when it comes to Durban, it's all about the vibe. The reasons that I love this city are too many to fill just one blog post, but some of the best parts of this place include:
World class waves that break on stunning beaches. Being able to walk around barefooted without receiving dirty looks. Rocking casual attire whenever you want wherever you want. Wearing winter clothes for fashion purposes rather than out of necessity. Being able to hit the beach and catch a tan all year around. Salt of the earth, genuine people. 


Well if you weren't a proud Durbanite before, I hope that after reading this, you are sitting back on your chair, with your arms crossed nodding and saying "mmmm, we do live a good life here in Durban don't we." Mission accomplished.  

Me as a toddler strutting along Durban's beachfront

Chels and I playing barbies at the RCI Night Surfing event

(Images by Matthew Knight on the Unit 11 website)

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World Cup Fever

With the 2010 Soccer world cup so close we can feel it breathing down our necks, I thought it only fitting that I should dedicate today’s post and a whole 15 minutes of my time to write something about this highly anticipated event.

(Moses Mabhida Stadium - Durban)

The stadiums are finished, there are flags of countries I never even knew existed flying from every second car that drives by, not to mention an epidemic of South African flags everywhere the eye glances, and world cup fever is epidemic in Durban. Traveling from A to B these days is a whole lot easier said than done as traffic jams and roadwork’s are rife throughout every route in the city. Tourists and avid soccer fans are coming in by the droves via our shiny new International Airport completed just weeks ago.

News about the world cup can be heard blaring from every radio station and is the topic of conversation daily on everybody’s lips. Being as ‘proudly south African’ as most of us are, we have jumped at the opportunity to exercise our hospitality and host an event of such prestigious status.

We are all looking forward to seeing the reaction of mislead foreigners when they realize that we do indeed have a basic infrastructure, drive cars and not horse-drawn carts and do not keep wild animals as pets.

This country has so much to offer that I think even the footballer’s wives might enjoy their stay with us.

It’s also quite funny how we are bluffing the tourists just a bit by removing all the street children from the roadside, cleaning up the beachfront litter and banning vuvuzelas from the games, thus not giving tourists a true South African experience, but it’s all in the name of hospitality in the end I guess.

I am glad to say I’ll be attending 3 of the games in Durban myself as I managed to land a spot as a promoter, so one day when I’m old and grey I can share stories of how ‘back in my day’ I was a part of all the festivities.

To boast about my hometown just a tad, these are some pictures to show why I Heart Durban.

(South Beach)

(North Coast)

(Durban's 'Goldenmile' Coastline)